TheLoveOfADom

General rules for His kajira:

1. If I am unsure, I will ask. I will not be punished for not understanding.

2. I will fully respond physically and verbally to Him.

3. I will not tense up when being spanked or treated roughly.

4. I will confess when I have been bad or naughty and will not contest my punishment.

5. I will make suggestions especially in regards to pleasuring Him, or when I am asked to do so.

6. I will be completely honest with Him, and I can expect Him to do the same with me.

7. Though I may be submissive to Him, I am in fact His equal. If I feel that I am being treated unfairly physically or emotionally I will let Him know IMMEDIATELY.

8. When He perceives that I am upset or angry and asks me “what’s wrong” I WILL answer Him the first time He asks, no matter what. Not doing so upsets Him.

9. I understand that in this relationship, my needs come before His wants.

10. I will wait before opening any door, giving Him opportunity to open and hold it for me. He sees holding the door for a lady a sign of respect, not of servitude.

11. Unless in the presence of “vanillas” I will refer to Him as, Daddy, Sir, Master, Jared. If I wish to use another name I may try at my own risk. When in public I will refer to Him as, Honey, Sir, Darling, My love, Handsome, Jared.

12. Though I am submissive to Him, I will look Him in the eyes when addressing Him as a sign of respect.

13. I must never show disrespect for Him in any way – no matter where I am – in His presence or not. I know that He will never disrespect me.

14. Some mornings I will be awakened by Him with a new rule or task for the day. I must complete the task or abide by the new rule until or before the days end respectively.

15. I will do my best to learn something new everyday.

16. When I am before Him for the first time in a day, I will kneel, look at His feet, my arms will be extended with the wrists crossed. (submission position)

17. Clothing in His presences will be as follows: Panties (black preferred), Long Socks, and Collar. This will change as the situation/weather dictates.

18. I will sit in the “Nadu” and ask before getting into His bed.

19. I will sleep naked unless He tells me otherwise or we have discussed it.

20. I will present myself to Him in the “Nadu”, “Sulu”, “Sulu-ki”, “Usage”, or “She-sleen” position anytime He enters or re-enters a room.

21. I will always ask if He needs or wants anything before I take my place next to Him.

22. I will ALWAYS ask before removing His collar.

23. Unless we are in the presence of “vanillas” I will ask before sitting on furniture.

24. I will be responsible for cleaning of the house and cooking His meals as follows:

    1. I will vacuum 3 days per week.

    2. I will dust the entire house 2 days per week.

    3. I will de-clutter all tables daily.

    4. I will de-clutter and organize all dressers and counters in all rooms 3 times per week.

    5. I will wash and put away dishes daily.

    6. I will be responsible for laundry.

    7. I will fold and put away the laundry in the same day.

    8. I will clean the bathrooms at least one day per week to include vacuuming/sweeping.

    9. My shoes will be placed neatly in the proper places, in a line, with the laces tucked inside.

    10. I will walk the pups 3 days per week. (Weather permitting)

    11. I will provide Him with home cooked meals 3 days per week.

    12. The above rules may be passed over if work or school needs to be completed.

    13. I will not be ashamed or afraid to ask Him for help.

25. I will not touch alcohol without his permission. If I desire a “drink” I will ask. If we are in the presence of “vanillas” I may get his attention, and touch the lip of my glass. He will reply by touching the lip of his glass indicating that I may indulge with him. If he covers the top of his glass (or bottle) I will understand that I am not to drink.

Personal rules for His kajira:

1. My body is beautiful. I will always take pride in my body, and knowing that He is pleased with me and the way I look.

2. I will be proud of everything I do, He takes pride in me.

3. I will do my best to take care of myself physically and emotionally. I am His most valuable and prized possession.

4. I know that He will do His best to help me with my self confidence and self image. I will do as I am told in these areas. I may voice my apprehension but I will not over step my boundaries.

5. I will wear my collar with pride for I choose to submit to Him, and He will always care for and provide for me to the best of His ability.

6. My body belongs to Him. He gets to choose how much or how little of it I am to show.

7. When I am forced to wear something out into public that I may not be completely comfortable with, I will always carry a change of clothing or an item that can be used to cover myself if I become uncomfortable. (Cami, Jeans, T-shirt, etc….)

8. If I find another woman attractive I will approach/speak to her. I know this pleases Him I will be nice and friendly to the woman and if nothing else I will find joy in the fact that He gets pleasure from watching me.

9. I will examine myself for improvements and insecurities. I will bring these to Him and we will have an open and honest conversation about them.

10. I will keep a blog or website, posting to it at least twice per month. This will allow me to express things in my life as His wife/sub and things that I may not feel comfortable talking about. Also things I do not wish to air publicly, or am too shy to talk about I will convey them to Him in an e-mail.

11. When I walk, sit, or stand I will do so with such great confidence that others around me will admire my performance.

12. When asked to do so I will make a written list of the things that make me the most self-conscious, uncomfortable, or embarrassed.

13. I will do my best to keep my nails, fingers and toes, manicured and painted at all times. I may use clear paint if I cannot decide on a color or combination of colors.

14. I will take great care about my appearance as it always reflects on Him even in “vanilla” settings where they do not know the dynamic exists.

Sexual rules for His kajira:

1. I must always feel sexual – I am a sexual being.

2. I will learn the positions He likes so that I can please Him.

3. I shall incorporate a sexual attitude and hungry in everything I do and be eager to sexually perform for Him at all times.

4. I must ask before playing, if I cannot ask I have to tell Him as soon as possible. If He is in town, then I may only play when He is there to watch.

5. I will not be afraid to admit my limits, I will use the safe word anytime I feel uncomfortable. (Pineapple, or 3 knocks with a limb or head)

6. When presenting myself to Him, I will do so quietly and humbly, my eyes cast downward.

7. I must always at a minimum taste His cum. If it is inside of me I will taste it, if it is in my mouth I will swallow it, if it is on my body I will massage it and play in it for this pleases Him.

8. After intercourse, and unless He tells me otherwise, I will always clean Him with my tongue and mouth.

9. He will decide what my sexual orientation will be. I will commit myself to His decision and perform as such only in His presence and only with His permission.

10. I must always remember how pleased He is when others delight in my sexiness and beauty.

11. I may at times offer various parts of my body to Him in hopes He will take pleasure in using them in whatever ways He wishes.

12. Even though my body is His, I get the final say in situations that involve physical contact with other people.

13. When pleasuring Him, I will not use the words, I, me, mine, I will refer to myself as this girl, this slave, this kajira, etc.

14. I will not pleasure myself (unless otherwise told) until my chores have been completed.

15. If I am lucky enough for him to cum on or in me I will cum until it is all cleaned up or eaten.