TheLoveOfADom

Our relationship is very unique to me. It’s a situation I’ve never been in before. When we met, my girl was full of insecurity. She was so scared of me loving her, and being hurt that she did her best to push me out of her life. I must say however the she was worth the fight. Since we were married almost 4 years ago she has grown, changed, and evolved. Her insecurities are fading. She has new confidence. She stands and carries her self in a proud manner that I can’t explain.

She is everything I’ve ever wanted. She always has been. When we first met she was able to go from a sweet loving girl to a what I can only describe as mean. She very rarely ever turned on me, she let herself swing into grouchy mode as a defense. She would let it build and then use the fear that drove the anger to protect herself whether it be from me or from something as simple as a rude customer service agent. In the last year or so however she has changed. We’ve worked together so that she can learn that it’s ok to be vulnerable. She has learned to open herself to me and to allow herself to be loved. She has learned to accept and show love in ways this this owner can not begin to explain.

Her submission is so very new to both of us. Sometimes I feel that we are both a little scared of how submissive she can be and how powerful our love is. She is my girl, my slave, my Kajira. I am her Dom, her Master, her Daddy.

Most people think of Daddy Doms as an actual father daughter role. Some go so far as to think that we enjoy pacifier, diaper and bottle feeding type play. This could not be any further from what we are. As her Daddy, she relies on me to care for her, both physically and emotionally. I work, I provide for all of her physical needs, wood, shelter, and all things sexual. Emotionally I have to be her strong point. She leans on me. I do my best to build her up and make her stronger and more confident everyday. She lives her life to bring pride to her Daddy. She strives to grow and to learn to be what I want her to be. She also strives to meet all of my sexual needs. When she forgets her place she is disciplined in what ever way I choose.

She strives to take care of our home, her body and her own emotions in order to make her daddy proud. She is a very good girl but from time to time she does forget her place or miss something. When this happens she gets disciplined, either by spankings, orgasm denial, or by some other means that I can come up with. When she has good days she is rewarded with pleasure that is as much as she can handle. Most days my little girl gets to orgasm until she can’t take it. Often times the pleasure is so much that she passes out. As a D/s couple I suppose some of these rewards would seem odd, or even as punishment. My slave loves to be lead around the house on her leash, tied to the coffee table and used for my own sexual pleasure, or even just held and petted.

She is an amazing woman. I’ve never wanted to be a Dom before but with her it’s such a rewarding experience. Take care of her makes me feel complete. Building her up and seeing to her needs makes my life feel complete. Her submission and my dominance feed off of each other. Our lives are completed by one another. She holds as much of my heart as I do hers. So as you can see our relationship is not weird. We aren’t freaks. Although we have our kinky side we believe that our relationship is stronger and more loving than most.